As a former sales associate, I get that the ONLY loyalty commitment that meant anything from sellers or buyers was a firm written commitment to work with me exclusively. And I also realize that when I was listing and selling, the exclusive agreements were predominately used by listing agents and sellers not agents with buyers. I didn’t run my business like most agents…I ran against the “norm”. In fact, I represented many more buyers that sellers throughout my sales career and I worked with exclusive agreements for representation with my buyer clients. I know…I know most of you are thinking that my sales career was so long ago and that today’s buyers are different. Perhaps, I sold real estate a while ago however, I am entrenched in the real estate market as a trainer, educator and life coach. In today’s market, there are some things that are NOT different.
Let’s explore what hasn’t changed…Think about these traits and ask your self if you possess the attractiveness you need in today’s market to bring about that loyalty from buyers and sellers.
1. Today’s buyers and sellers want a realistic agent with an attitude of positive thinking…not irrational exuberance but a healthy state of optimism is appropriate. Think about it, do you want to work with someone who is a negative Nellie or Negative Nate? I don’t and I will choose not to…I will move on to another agent. I was recently asked what motivates me and after considering the question for a bit of time, my response was “pro-activity…MY ability to control the outcome of events.” In today’s market there are things that are out of your control, no doubt, however, your attitude is all about how you choose to look at life and what you do when faced with life’s opportunities and challenges. Approaching life’s challenges and opportunities with energy rather than avoidance and procrastination is what I am talking about. Be proactive…have a plan!
2. Try a shift in your thinking…for me, if I continue to believe something to be a truth, I NEVER look beyond the truth to find new solutions. Maybe the perception of your reality needs to change…instead of trying to solve problems in the same way you have in the past, look to new “out of the box” solutions. For me, I seek out the expertise of others…often times, their perception of reality is vastly different from mine- get out of your box of “this is how it is and this is how I go about dealing with this challenge.” If the challenge continues to reappear, you obviously haven’t found a permanent solution-seek out others. You will begin to approach life and life opportunities and challenges differently with a shift in your thinking…for me, the new thinking is like hitting the refresh button on my computer. I feel re-energized and prepared for the new challenge-often with a new solution! Seek out new professional development courses…seek out those you respect and admire…ask them about how they manage through challenging times.
3. Loose the Nay-Sayers…the Negative Nellie’s and Negative Nate’s are not for me and should not be for you unless you want to be pulled into the negativity as well. Surround yourself with the optimism that will give you the energy to move forward with new thinking not weigh you down with negative thinking. The nay-Sayers in your life are the folks that burst your bubble of enthusiasm and energy…they are the folks that after you engage them in conversation you walk away exhausted and depleted…loose the Nay-Sayers.
4. Life is a gift…handle with extreme care. We all receive bad news from time to time and we all face struggles within our own lives…it is easier to face those struggles and challenges on a full tank of gas rather than to be running on empty. It is important to fill yourself up with goodness…healthy eating, supportive relationships, exercise and restful not fitful sleep make a big difference in how we approach our lives…both on a personal and on a professional level. Renewed energy helps to feel better equipped to manage life’s up & downs.
5. Ask for a commitment. If you are caring for yourself and hold yourself up to consumers with the confidence and thoughtful dialogue of what’s in it for them…I believe your ability to show value and create loyalty with written agreements will increase and you will become the exclusive agent of choice.